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I've given this issue a lot of thought over the years and have discussed it with many professionals and students, and the consensus seems to be that it's best to wait until the student has graduated. Morally speaking, I don't think there's anything wrong with waiting until she isn't in your class any longer, but you really take a risk, I think. As men get older, they are less mature concerning younger women. This kid (because that's what she is: a kid) can't offer you anything. His reporting has examined police mistreatment of rape victims, corruption among Pennsylvania public officials, the high dismissal rate in the Philadelphia criminal courts, among other issues. When not teaching fifth graders, Kershaw took boys camping, canoeing, and on ski trips.He “loved introducing boys to the wonders of nature.” After a long career at Philadelphia’s elite Chestnut Hill Academy and three other local private schools, Kershaw died a satisfied man, according to an obituary he drafted himself.He returned last night, and I adamantly ended the relationship forthwith, but it was not easy. The line may be technically blurry but in your heart it is quite clear: To the young man, you are still his teacher, still a person in a position of trust and authority.You may have done nothing wrong in a technical sense. Sex with such a person carries heavy contradictions and confusion -- not only for him but for you.
So I suggest that, having broken it off, you henceforth avoid all contact with the young man.
This is incredibly difficult to place down into words because of the shameful nature of what I have done.
Following the graduation of one of my students, who is 18 years old, we began seeing each other socially.
Even after she graduates, there is some stigma to dating a former student. I would say once she turns 21, that would be even better for you. It's not the age difference- I'm 19 and dated a 28 year and it was one of the best relationships I have had- but it can only be bad for your job.
On other message boards, most guys feel that women under 24 years old just come with a lot of drama, and under 21 is even worse. If you waited until she was completely out of the college you teach at, it would be one thing. Plus, you don't know if she is using you to further her educational needs.